Yes, only 13 days until the big day.
The countdown until the end of high school or college was different from this.
So many emotions, feelings, and new self-knowledge.
It’s the beginning of a new life! Nothing like ever before. Friends, family, and acquaintances will remain special, but to each other our lives will change.
One flesh. Not sure what that means yet, but we have a whole lifetime to learn.
Giving always, and not expecting in return. That’s a very hard thing for me. The only thing I know is that the more I trust, and the more I give, the more blessings come in return. The benefits are boundless. Giving and trusting, and giving and trusting some more. It always seems to get better.
Yours, mine, and ours. This relates to the above-mentioned “one flesh” and “giving always”. Our unique talents can uphold and support each other. Always with the intent of growing them instead of burying them in the ground. Our talents together are better than just “yours and mine”. Our talents were given to help others.
It takes three to live. Brian + Annie + God. We often think we’re alone, but God persistently lets us know He’s there too. It’s been easier to allow our hearts to be vulnerable to each other when we realize we’re not alone. I mean vulnerable in a good way.
Sometimes, we feel like children. “The older I get – the less I know” seems to fit perfectly for our relationship. The longer we’ve been together, the more we realize how little experience we have. Interpretation: humbleness is maturity. (We’ll be working on this for a long time.)
Words aren’t everything. I’m learning that sometimes you’ve just gotta BE. Applying words doesn’t always make things more special or meaningful. Life is deeper than that. Wasting time fighting over words isn’t worth it either.
Open our eyes, and our hearts too. – Say our prayers every night. Speak kindly. Lend a helping hand. Say “Good morning!” like we mean it. Hug fondly. Listen. ~ How special times are made. We’re still working on it.
What we pray for — Grace. We both pray for grace on our wedding day. We pray for our hearts to be moved. We pray for everyone present to receive grace.
We are not alone. We are touched daily by everyone who has written to us, sent us gifts, helped with preparations, and offered encouragement. Without community, none of this would be possible. Thank you. You’ve helped grow and prepare us for our future as husband and wife.
Thank you.
The older we get – the less we know. We’re two just millennials doing things the old-fashioned way.
I’m thankful that we’ll be able to go on this journey together.
Just as we are.